Pastoral Reminders
Safeguarding
Question of the Week
“In the run-up to Christmas, a child says, ‘I hate Christmas,’ and the adult replies, ‘Come on, Scrooge — it’ll be fun.’ It might sound jokey, but how might this response shut down our professional curiosity? What are some of the possible reasons the child could feel unhappy about Christmas?”
Possible reasons
- Family conflict or tension: arguments, stress, unpredictable routines.
- Domestic abuse: Christmas can be a high-risk period at home.
- Financial pressure or poverty: worries about gifts, food, heating, or comparison with peers.
- Bereavement or separation: Christmas highlighting who is missing.
- Sensory overwhelm: noise, lights, crowds, rehearsals, and disrupted routines.
- Stressful contact arrangements: anxiety about handovers or seeing/not seeing a parent.
- Seasonal alcohol misuse at home: fear or unease about family gatherings.
- Unmet basic needs: tiredness, hunger, or instability.
- Social pressure: not wanting to answer “What did you get?”
- Mental health needs: anxiety, masking, or fear of the holiday period.
- Caring responsibilities: knowing Christmas may mean additional anxiety or stress.
(And of course, we might be affected by these things too.)
When a child says they ‘hate Christmas’, it’s rarely about the holiday itself; it’s a cue to pause, stay curious, and gently explore what might lie underneath.
Please note that just before the school holidays, I will be sending out letters to enable students to seek help from various organisations should they need to.
Inclusion- Young Carers
Please note that we are in the process of identifying our Young Carers in School. Niloo has placed in all form tutors pigeonholes a very simple tick sheet for students to complete.
We are also sending all families a letter with a Google Form linked to see if we can identify our young carers through both groups.
More information on young carers can be found here
SEN
I wanted to say a huge thank you to Christie Tremain and Monika Siek for running a fabulous Year 11 workshop with SEN students and parents. The aim of the workshop was to support parents/guardians with tips on helping their child revise. All students were given revision packs to support them over the next few months.

Form Time Activity
This week form tutors should be focussing on online safety. I will be echoing similar messages in assembly next week.
I hope you all had a lovely weekend.
Gurvinder