Pastoral Reminders
Child Protection
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Question of the Week
“If a child discloses something worrying to you, what are the two most important things you must (and must not) do in that moment?”
Here's one answer, what's wrong with it?
"I’d reassure the child and promise to keep what they say secret so they don’t lose trust in me. Then I’d ask lots of questions to get all the details and jot down the main points before deciding whether it’s serious enough to tell the DSL later."
Answer
Never promise secrecy
You must never promise confidentiality. You must explain that you will need to share the concern with the DSL to help keep the child safe.
Don't ask lots of questions
We are not investigators. You should only listen and, if necessary, ask a simple clarifying question. Asking too many questions risks confusing or muddling the child’s account.
Don't summarise ‘main points’
Don’t rewrite in your own words. Record factually, as soon as possible, using the child’s exact words.
Don't consider the seriousness yourself or delay reporting
It’s not your role to judge whether it’s “serious enough”. Always pass it on to the DSL immediately using the school's procedures.
Correct Approach
- Listen, reassure, explain (you must share with the DSL).
- Record in the child’s words.
Report immediately to the DSL.
Mental Health Week
I wanted to share with you the range of therapeutic mental health provisions in school. The support is available for both staff and students.
- Ealing Youth Counselling Service
- London Young Counselling
- Walk the Walk (post 16)
- Well-being drop-in – ADH - AG16
Inclusion- Form Time Activities
- The Child Protection Team have organised a range of Form Time Activities around Child Protection and Mental Health concerns.
- We should be on Week 6 of the activities focussing specifically as a Catch-Up week. Please play the video and then discuss the questions on Deep Fakes if you have not yet covered this.
Thank you so much for your continued support. Hope you all had a lovely weekend.
Gurvinder Nayyar