In focus: Life before 'yellow'
This week, we will continue to focus on the ‘life before yellow card’ strategies’ we discussed at the staff meeting. This week’s focus is on forced choices.
How we behave is often down to a choice - this is the same for our students. The forced choice technique focuses upon highlighting this fact. This technique is often used after, or in combination with some of the other strategies that we have looked at. The most important part of this technique is using “or” - for example: You may have directed a student to work in silence, but they have chosen to carry on talking. You can now force their choice by saying “Mark, you can choose to work silently, or I will have to move you”.
During duty you may say: “You can choose to play safely in the MUGA, or I will have to ask you leave”. When dealing with poor uniform or makeup: “You can choose not to wear makeup again, or I will call your parents”.
There are various ways you can force a choice - the keyword is always or. This technique works well, but only if you follow-through when needed. To summarise:
> Only give options that you can realistically follow-through on.
> Start with small consequences.
> Talk in a calm but confident manner.
> Don’t wait for an answer, move on with the lesson.
> Only intervene further if needed - calmly.
As last week - these take practice. Please let me know if you have tried any of these techniques as I would love to hear some success stories!
Mark Harvey